from this to this lols.
People say life changes us. And with all the modern world challenges we see and face everyday, people are now becoming more and more stressed and more pressurized that they lose the true essence of being true human. They lack compassion, empathy, sympathy and honesty. The way we make out of tests in life all depends on how we face (read: attitude) the adversity in life at the first place. It all relies on how we are made of inside (mentality) and how we perceive the tests and ponder on its purposes and implications on ourselves at the very end of the day (logical reasoning).
Just take a potato and an egg for example. When we put both inside hot boiling water, look at what happens. Potato will boil to form soft mushy fillings whereas the egg will become white and hardened. These are two very different final forms even when the condition they were put in was the same. Therefore we can say that what is inside will determine the outlet or final form. What is built inside us after years of living will become an outlet to what may come at the end even when we were given the same pressure. We can choose what to become or how to react after going through all forms of the hardship based on what we were made of (mentality). We can be either stronger or weaker after facing difficulties. It all depends on your mind set actually. But each and everyone of us is unique so we cannot say all of us will become the same after going through the same path. Our upbringing, mental state and spiritual strength are all setting us apart from one another. But what's truly important is, to be able to become stronger after each hurdle of life and to be able to feel more passion and love to spread positivity to other people. Let's all live to give benefit to others.
P/s: you need to be boiled for you to benefit others. You need to sacrifice for your true potential to unveil. That's why you put that tea bag inside hot water before you get to put in sugar and drink it as a soothing beverage. If you simply throw that teabag inside the cup and add nothing, can you sip the sweetness of the tea? No right? Another analogy so that you get what i mean.