i figured that you cannot be honest with everyone. sometimes, that honesty can turn to naivety, in which people can use it against you and for their own advantage. never spill the beans to everyone, some may be hostile towards you. you don't know who will be holding grudges against you. you must stay put and quiet, do things you plan. never tell others unless you have worked them out. stand on your own feet. be proud of your own feat. fret not, believe in what you wanna do. be happy to be you.